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April 8th, 2011

Cirque Du So Late!

Last night, I took Jack to the Baltimore premiere of Cirque Du Soleil's new show, TOTEM. For those who have followed the Shrek saga, I should mention that Jack has been great at school lately, so I thought this would be a good reward for him.

I had never been to a Cirque D'Soleil show and really wasn't sure what to expect. I was a little concerned about the 8 p.m. start time, but Jack's favorite part of the Barnum & Bailey Circus was always the acrobats, so I thought he would love it. The first thing I noticed when we got there was that there were almost no kids. I know that Cirque is a more refined type of performance, but I still imagined there would be a healthy contingent of kids. I honestly saw maybe five kids under the age of 10 the whole night.

Well, the kid population of Baltimore is missing out. The show was absolutely tremendous. Jack—who's been known to have trouble paying attention to anything for a very long time—and I were both riveted for the length of the show, which very roughly follows the evolution of humankind from swamp frogs to apes to cavemen to cell-phone-toting businessmen, with appearances by Charles Darwin (all of that was lost on Jack, though).

The feats of strength, agility, skill, and grace were mind-blowing. There were several times during the show where I found myself wondering how it was even physically possible for some of the performers to do what they were doing. One favorite was the two "beach bums" who each held onto a single ring suspended at times up to 50 feet in the air (without a net)—with one hand—and wildly swung and contorted their bodies in all sorts of inhuman ways. There was a group of six women on stilted unicycles who had stacks of bowls balanced on their heads, and they would kick them around the stage and the others would catch them on their head. Hard to describe, incredible to see.

But as amazing as the feats were, the most amazing things to me were the costumes, the make-up, and the set. Act after act, the performers appeared in these elaborate guises, so different than anything I'd seen before. The women on the unicycles (pictured, top) were my favorite, along with a group of who performed on mobile, bendy balance beams (pictured, middle)

Needless to say, Jack had a blast. When the show stopped for intermission at around 9:30, I asked if he wanted to go home. He looked at me as if I had threatened to kill Buzz Lightyear. Instead, we went to the "lobby"—really some outer fold of the massive temporary tent that houses the whole production—and bought him a dinosaur hat that snakes down his back (pictured, bottom).

When we finally got out, it was almost eleven, and it did take a bit to emerge from the parking lot, but, even at that late hour, it took Jack a few minutes (at least until we go to Monroe St.) to calm down from the excitement and fall asleep. I hope he's holding up okay in school today. 

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April 1st, 2011

Keep Em Busy

The Enoch Pratt Free Library begins its month-long Fairy Tale Festival (left) with a kickoff extravaganza Saturday and Sunday at the Central Branch, featuring magic shows, crafts, a giant knight (though I'm not sure I know what that means), and free pictures of the kids from 1 to 3 p.m. both days. If my limited experience with little girls is any indication (we have two boys), they won't need much incentive to don a princess costume. My guys, on the other had, do not have royal get-ups. Perhaps they will go as Sir Spiderman and the Earl of Batman...

On Saturday, there's a 5K run and Daffodil Festival at Cromwell Valley Park in Loch raven—which has a beautiful, majestic look of its own—featuring live music, face-painting, crafts, and, I presume, a large quantity of daffodils.

If you're ready to introduce your little people to the joys of fishing, the fishing rodeo at Patterson Park on Saturday is a great place to learn the craft, trying to catch some of the monster bass in Boat Lake. Bring your own rod and reel, or borrow on a limited supply there (no charge).

And of course, there are the perrenially great-for-kids activities, including the Walters, which, besides the great, often kid-friendly exhibits, has a fantastic play area on the lower level with lots of dress up stuff, puppets, puzzles, and an art room where there are facilitators to help you and are kids make great projects and bonus: FREE; The Baltimore Museum of Art frequently has great kids' activities; Also, the Marlyland Science Center ($3 off admission before noon on Saturdays, plus the weekly egg-drop contest), Port Discovery Children's MuseumThe Zoo, two Storyville locations (we LOVE Storyville), The American Visionary Art Museum (also with kid-friendly exhibits, and the treehouse/sculpture out back if it's not too cold), the various nature centers and conservancies (Oregon RidgeIrvineHoward County), and—of course!— the Aquarium.

 

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March 25th, 2011

Keep Em Busy...

In between stocking up on bottled water and canned goods before Sunday's snow storm—believe it—you should have some time with the kids. Here are some ways to keep 'em busy...

The Maryland Science Center is always a great place to spend some time, but on Saturday at 3pm, you can go and participate in "Earth Hour," when all the computers will be shut down and there will be activities teaching how to conserve energy.

Last weekend the Maryland Zoo celebrated Samson the elephant's third birthday, and this Saturday at 1:45 p.m., they'll mark Zoe the giraffe's (pictured) 16th year with a special demonstration and chat with her keeper.

On Saturday at 2p.m., the Enoch Pratt Free Library's central branch is hosting a free screening of Despicable Me as part of its family flicks series.

When I was a kid, earning a spot on Nickelodeon's kid game show Double Dare was the coveted kid dream, like maybe being on American Bandstand was once. On Sunday, you can take your kids and live the dream at the Owings Mills JCC's Family Double Dare, for ages 6 and up. Get slimed...

And of course, there are the perrenially great-for-kids activities, including the Walters, which, besides the great, often kid-friendly exhibits, has a fantastic play area on the lower level with lots of dress up stuff, puppets, puzzles, and an art room where there are facilitators to help you and are kids make great projects and bonus: FREE; The Baltimore Museum of Art frequently has great kids' activities; Also, the Marlyland Science Center ($3 off admission before noon on Saturdays, plus the weekly egg-drop contest), Port Discovery Children's MuseumThe Zoo, two Storyville locations (we LOVE Storyville), The American Visionary Art Museum (also with kid-friendly exhibits, and the treehouse/sculpture out back if it's not too cold), the various nature centers and conservancies (Oregon RidgeIrvineHoward County), and—of course!— the Aquarium.

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March 25th, 2011

Shrek Revisited

I got a lot of great feedback from my post earlier this week about canceling plans to see Shrek with my son Jack, as punishment for his misbehavior at school (I only wish people would comment here on the site, or on the Learning to Crawl Facebook page, rather than on my personal Facebook page, so that more people could see them). The advice ranged from "You're a great dad" to "You are mean" (thanks BJD!). I got some really lovely emails from parents telling their stories of similar struggles. Interestingly, when I off-handedly mentioned the punishment to Jack's teacher, she said "That sounds like a heavy punishment!" It took me aback, because I always suspected they thought we weren't being harsh enough.

In any case, I decided to get tickets for Shrek on another night. I figured if Jack was good for a couple days, I would take him as a reward. The tickets for Tuesday were for great seats and, best of all, they were free, since it was press night. Having missed that, I had to pay for tickets for last night's show and they were "obstructed view." When Jack got home from school yesterday and I learned that he had been good the second day in a row, I handed him the Shrek brochure. "We're going?!" He screamed and jumped and propped up the brochure next to his plate at dinner, so he could look at it while he ate.

Then off we went. We were early, so we went to watch the musicians in the orchestra pit warming up, took the picture here in the lobby, and got to out seats (which weren't bad at all, actually). Before long, it was showtime.

Jack was terrified. As soon as the booming orchestra and voices started, he turned to me and said, loudly, "Take me home!" I calmed him and convinced him to stick it out a little longer. He started to get into the story, but then remembered what was coming. "Take me home before the dragon part," he said, demonstrating a totally sensible fear of fire. He went back and forth between giggling and, every time there was a loud noise or fighting, asking to go home. I figured we'd try to stick it out until intermission and then pack it in.

Just before intermission, when Shrek and Donkey get to the castle—the dragon part—Jack crawled in my lap and turned away. But the dragon was super-cool, singing instead of roaring, and being operated by a team of puppeteers, like a giant Chinese dragon puppet. It was actually one of the most creative elements of the production, which was full of creative elements. And Jack loved it. He sat back in his seat and, a minute later, leaned over to me: "Daddy, we can't leave until the very end." Having grown sleepy, I was actually looking forward to heading home early, but, oh well.

In the second act, I fought to stay awake, while Jack sat riveted. The show is well done, full of the best elements of the movie, with some understandable tweaks of plot and production. My only real peeve was the music. As I explained before, I really love the music in the film, from Rufus Wainwright, Eels, and, yes, even Smashmouth. But that was all absent from the show, no doubt as a result licensing and cost issues. It was replaced with fairly bland show tunes—not bad, but certainly not as evocative or interesting. I was relieved when, during a curtain call, the cast sang the version of "I'm a Believer" from the film—hardly my favorite tune on the soundtrack, but we sang along to every word.

All the way home—or at least until Jack passed out cold—he begged to come back to the show another night. This morning, he started asking again. I told him that we wouldn't go back to the Shrek show, but, if he was good, we'd go to another show at the Hippodrome soon. Here's hoping there's always another show to shoot for...

 

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March 23rd, 2011

When Punishing the Kids Means Punishing Yourself

As I mentioned in a previous post, we were very much looking forward to the Shrek musical coming to the Hippodrome last night. Jack, my four-year-old, has been talking about it for weeks, asking "Are we going to Shrek today?" almost every morning. I've heard him talking about it to his friends ("the real Shrek is gonna be there!"). It was going to be Jack's first full-scale musical, he was going to have an incredible time, and I was going to write here about our magical evening.

As you might've guessed by now, it didn't happen.

When my wife Brenda brought the boys home from school, she explained that his teacher said he had really been misbehaving at school, not listening to his teachers and pushing other kids. I should mention that this has been an ongoing problem. Jack is a really sweet, smart, good-natured kid - all of his teachers have agreed on that - but he has really struggled to follow directions and pay attention to his teachers (and, often, us), to the point that we've wondered if he's showing signs of ADD/ADHD.

The whole time that Brenda was explaining the situation to me, Jack was yanking on my leg, asking, "Can I still go to Shrek? Can I still go to Shrek?" I was really torn.

In the past when Jack had misbehaved, he was punished with timeouts, or with no dessert or no books at bedtime. The worst punishment, it seems, is just us being mad at him. When we are, he constantly tries to engage us in silly conversation, asking every few minutes, "Are you still mad at me?" But nothing we do really seems to change his behavior.

On the one hand, it just didn't seem right to take Jack out for the special night right after reprimanding him for misbehaving. What are the chances he would remember our talk after the Shrek show? We considered some other punishment, like not letting him go to the circus (which he also loves), as we're planning for next week, but it seemed so far away, so disconnected. Clearly, not letting him go to Shrek would be the most impactful punishment, one that might really get him to think about his behavior next time.

On the other hand, I, like most other parents, I assume, live for those moments when your kids are just filled with joy. There is literally nothing in this world that makes me happier than watching Jack and Benny smile and laugh - and I knew Shrek would make Jack do that. Taking it away really felt like as much a punishment for me as it was for him. 

Ultimately, we decided not to let him go. He cried for a good 10 minutes, then recovered pretty quickly - a little too quickly, actually. He said he didn't really want to go anyway, which I know is just a ploy/defense mechanism, but darned if it ain't effective! He spent the rest of the night asking if we were still mad at him.

I spent the rest of the night looking up symptoms of ADD/ADHD and wondering if we had done the right thing. If he really does show signs of the disorder, maybe he really can't help his wandering attention span. Before bed, I gave him a hug and told him I wasn't mad at him anymore, but that I hoped he learned something from the experience. The whole time we were talking, he was reaching for his toy trumpet. It's so hard to know if we're getting through to him. After he went to bed, I went online to see if we could get Shrek tickets for another night.

Anyway, I really don't know if we made the right decision. I guess we never really know. Parenting is hard, eh? Such a strange mix of joy and anxiety, hopes and fears. My sense is that the anxiety and fear are just part of the process. As long as you're constantly worried about doing something wrong, you can't really do anything wrong. At least nothing permanent. Here's hoping....

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March 18th, 2011

Keep Em Busy: (Almost) All Outdoors Edition

Have you been outside?! It's gorgeous, but you probably know that already. It looks like much of the weekend will be lovely. I don't know about you, but I plan things for outdoors during nice weather, partially because it's actually nice to be out in the fresh air and open spaces, but also—and, as summer wears on, mostly—because I'll feel terribly guilty if I don't. I'll admit that there are days when I secretly hope for cruddy weather so I won't feel guilty for staying inside and playing games, watching movies, etc. OK, so that's out there. But this early in the season, I genuinely want to be outside and you probably do too. Here are some suggestions for how to keep 'em busy.

We have become major, major boosters of The Maryland Zoo over the last year (and I don't mean that in the financial sense, although we are members). It's a great default activity on a day when you having nothing else planned, and there's enough different areas/exhibits/activities that there's always something new to explore. We love petting and brushing the goats, feeding the giraffes, watching the monkeys, riding the rides, and taking the tram and the Zephyr, but our favorite activity is visiting Samson the baby elephant. He's incredibly cute and, somehow, he acts just like a toddler. Last time we watched him try to squeeze his head inside a truck tire (his toy) for a good 30 minutes. It was hysterical. This Saturday at 11 a.m., the Zoo is celebrating Samson's 3rd birthday by singing happy birthday, eating cake (carrot and apple mush for Samson; the real thing, donated by Charm City Cakes, for the rest of us. Sorry Samson...), signing a card for the big little guy, and face-painting.

Oregon Ridge is another great default place to get outside any time, with lots of great activities including the huge playground and the nature center. This Saturday and Sunday, the nature center is hosting "Snakes and Clovers," from 2 to 4 p.m., where the little ones search for St. Patrick's Day symbols in the forrest (hopefully clovers, not snakes) and then come back and make crafts ($3; $2 for members).

On Sunday, celebrate the first day of spring by going to any Rita's in town for a FREE italian ice. Oh so nice.

And for a couple great, but, alas, indoor events: 

Even though I'm now an adjunct professor at Towson University, I'll be the first to admit that the school's Saturday Science series is not always the most scintillating activity (a previous one was "Repairing the Hubble Space Telescope."). But this Saturday the topic is "The Science Behind Pyrotechnics and Fireworks." And that sounds kinda awesome.

Sunday, there's a great Purim carnival at Reservoir High School from the Jewish Federation of Howard County.

And of course, there are the perrenially great-for-kids activities, including the Walters, which, besides the great, often kid-friendly exhibits, has a fantastic play area on the lower level with lots of dress up stuff, puppets, puzzles, and an art room where there are facilitators to help you and are kids make great projects and bonus: FREE; The Baltimore Museum of Art frequently has great kids' activities; Also, the Marlyland Science Center ($3 off admission before noon on Saturdays, plus the weekly egg-drop contest), Port Discovery Children's MuseumThe Zoo, two Storyville locations (we LOVE Storyville), The American Visionary Art Museum (also with kid-friendly exhibits, and the treehouse/sculpture out back if it's not too cold), the various nature centers and conservancies (Oregon RidgeIrvineHoward County), and—of course!— the Aquarium.

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March 11th, 2011

Keep 'Em Busy: The bubbles not Bubbles edition

First off, apologies on not advising how to keep 'em busy last weekend. I presume you all found ways on your own.

On Saturday, Port Discovery is having another "Littles Day," geared to kids 5 and under. It's a great spot for toddlers. Besides the awesome exhibits (including the ever-popular Wonders of Water and the new Tot Trails), on Littles Day, there's a moon bounce, Pets on Wheels, the Kindersinger, and balloon animals from Bubbles the Clown. (The website also says Bubbles will do magic, but I pressed Bubbles on this last time—Jack loves magic—and he said he wasn't there to do magic. So don't go holdin' your breath waiting for Bubbles the Clown to do magic is alls I'm sayin'.) The thing is sponsored by The Goddard School who, in the past, have also brought with them an awesome bubble-machine that occupied my little dudes as much as anything else. So maybe that makes up for the whole Bubbles situation. Maybe.

Also on Saturday, the Hopkins Synphony Orchestra is giving a FREE concert for children and families at 1 p.m. at Shriver Hall. The orchestra will play Nikolai Rimsky-Korsakov's Scheherazade, Opus 35. It's recommended for kids 4 and up and, after the concert, kids can come up onstage to meet the musicians and see their instruments up close. (The pic above is from last year's children's concert and, frankly, it looks to me like this musician might beat this child senseless with his clarinet if shoves the thing into his teeth one more time.)

The Jewish holiday of Purim, coming on March 19th, is one of my favorites. It's like a second Halloween in March, but noisier (how many other religions have a religious service where it is REQUIRED to bring and use a noisemaker?) This Sunday, the Jewish Family Initiative is getting the party started early with a Pre-Purim Carnival, complete with Hamentashen (a traditional pastry), music, mask-making, face-painting, bouncy-housing—the works.

Also, it's not this weekend, but a little advance planning never hurt anyone (or so I'm told): Check out our food critic Suzanne Loudermilk's post about a family-friendly grilled cheese cook-off happening April 10th at the Mt. Washington Tavern (which we've always found to be surprisingly family-friendly for a fairly upscale place). It sounds a-freakin-mazing, especially if you love grilled cheese as much as I do.

And of course, there are the perrenially great-for-kids activities, including the Walters, which, besides the great, often kid-friendly exhibits, has a fantastic play area on the lower level with lots of dress up stuff, puppets, puzzles, and an art room where there are facilitators to help you and are kids make great projects and bonus: FREE; The Baltimore Museum of Art frequently has great kids' activities; Also, the Marlyland Science Center ($3 off admission before noon on Saturdays, plus the weekly egg-drop contest), Port Discovery Children's MuseumThe Zoo (still open—check out the pic of zebras in the snow (!) on their website), two Storyville locations (we LOVE Storyville), The American Visionary Art Museum (also with kid-friendly exhibits, and the treehouse/sculpture out back if it's not too cold), the various nature centers and conservancies (Oregon RidgeIrvineHoward County), and—of course!— the Aquarium.

UPDATE: While writing this post, I contacted Port Discovery and let them know about the error on their website, regarding Bubbles doing magic. They have since changed "magic and balloon sculpting with Bubbles the Clown" to just "balloon sculpting with Bubbles the Clown." Also, Bubbles himself has been in touch and wants to make clear that he has always been contracted by Port Discovery for balloon sculpting, not magic, and the error was entirely theirs.

 

[photo courtesy of the Hopkins Symphony Orchestra]

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February 25th, 2011

Keep 'Em Busy This Weekend

As usual on Friday, we're in weekend-planning mode. This weekend seems to be one where there's more cool stuff to do than usual...

Well, to start BIG, there's Monster Jam at 1st Mariner Arena through the weekend ($10 tickets for kids, $22 and up for adults). We went last year (with comp tickets) and at first, I had trouble getting my head around the fact that thousands of people had gathered to watch the spectacle of enormous trucks ride over normal size cars—over and over and over again. To be fair, there are also riders doing tricks on motorcycles, ATVs, and bikes—some really incredible ones too—but they're really just palate-cleansers for the main event: watching Gravedigger (pictured) make rubble out of thousands of dollars worth of automotive machinery. Four-year-old Jack, I must admit, had a blast. And by the end, I was having fun too. Sorta. Bring earplugs for everybody!!

This is the last weekend to learn how to make maple syrup at Maple Magic at Irvine Nature Center in Owings Mills. My fellow blogger (cool) progeny—who I seem to run into at all the cool kid events in town—has a nice post about it.

It's also a good weekend to go to one of our favorite kid-friendly spots in town, The B&O Railroad Museum. For one thing, if you're a zoo member like us, it's the last weekend that that membership card will get you in free to the B&O. Also, this weekend marks the birthdays of both the B&O railroad itself and the roundhouse where the museum is located, and there are special exhibits about both. 

On Saturday night, the Y of in Randallstown is hosting a free family fun night from 6 to 9pm, where kids can swim, play games (including Dance Dance Revolution), and have snacks.

For older kids (8 and up), WYPR's Aaron Henkin will host the finals of Poetry Out Loud, a poetry contest for high school students, on Saturday night at the Enoch Pratt Free Library downtown.

And of course, there are the perrenially great-for-kids activities, including the Walters, which, besides the great, often kid-friendly exhibits, has a fantastic play area on the lower level with lots of dress up stuff, puppets, puzzles, and an art room where there are facilitators to help you and are kids make great projects and bonus: FREE; The Baltimore Museum of Art frequently has great kids' activities; Also, the Marlyland Science Center ($3 off admission before noon on Saturdays, plus the weekly egg-drop contest), Port Discovery Children's MuseumThe Zoo (still open—check out the pic of zebras in the snow (!) on their website), two Storyville locations (we LOVE Storyville), The American Visionary Art Museum (also with kid-friendly exhibits, and the treehouse/sculpture out back if it's not too cold), the various nature centers and conservancies (Oregon RidgeIrvineHoward County), and—of course!— the Aquarium.

 

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February 18th, 2011

Keep 'Em Busy—and Thinking About Presidents

Another three-day weekend and, with schools closed, more hours of the all-important busy-keeping. And, unless your kids are political junkies or history buffs, not much excitement about the holiday itself. But luckily, there's lots of other great stuff going on...

As we mentioned in an earlier post, this weekend is the debut of Pumpkin Theater's production, "If You Give a Mouse a Cookie," based on the awesome children's book—a favorite at my boys' school. Showtimes Saturday and Sunday, this weekend and next.

If your kids love a magic show - mine can't get enough - consider heading to the Chesapeake Arts Center in Brooklyn Park on Saturday at 4 p.m. to see nationally renowned magician Joe Romano (pictured here, floating on a broom a la Harry Potter) in the first show of the Center's Family Concert Series (it looks to be a great series too...)

An Die Musik is a fantastic local hub for classical, jazz, and avant garde music, but I've never of them staging any particularly kid-friendly events, which is why I was so pscyhed to hear about the piano duet for children scheduled for Sunday at 3 p.m. Stephanie Armstrong and Stephanie Bruning will perform a children-themed piano recital program with works by Ravel, Corigliano, Rawsthorne, Hovhaness, and more. Appropriate for ages 3 and up!

And of course, there are the perrenially great-for-kids activities, including the Walters, which, besides the great, often kid-friendly exhibits, has a fantastic play area on the lower level with lots of dress up stuff, puppets, puzzles, and an art room where there are facilitators to help you and are kids make great projects and bonus: FREE; The Baltimore Museum of Art frequently has great kids' activities; Also, the Marlyland Science Center ($3 off admission before noon on Saturdays, plus the weekly egg-drop contest), Port Discovery Children's MuseumThe Zoo (still open—check out the pic of zebras in the snow (!) on their website), two Storyville locations (we LOVE Storyville), The American Visionary Art Museum (also with kid-friendly exhibits, and the treehouse/sculpture out back if it's not too cold), the various nature centers and conservancies (Oregon RidgeIrvineHoward County), and—of course!— the Aquarium.

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February 14th, 2011

Theater For Kids - This Weekend

Another hidden local treasure—it seems they're endless, if you're looking—is the Pumpkin Theater at St. Timothy's School in Stevenson, MD.

Ever since we had kids, I've been hearing about this great local children's theater that's been around for 43 years and puts on really wonderful, professional theater for kids. Their new show, "If You Give a Mouse a Cookie," opens this weekend, with shows at 1pm and 3pm both Saturday and Sunday, and the same schedule next weekend. We're finally going to give it a try. I hear the shows are good for all kids 2 and up, who are able to sit through an hour-long show. If you're interested, move quick. Tickets ($12 in advance, $14 at the door) for some shows are close to selling out...

The image here is from Pumpkin Theater's 2010 production of "Hansel and Gretel".